They don’t want to face the reality that maybe this isn’t truly the best man for them or that he has no intentions on being with them.

They would rather fight her and hold her accountable because doing that to the man involved may force them to walk away or feel more embarrassed for staying with him. Rather than accept that maybe this situation/relationship isn’t what they want to believe it is, they would rather displace blame onto that other woman. They didn’t force him to flirt on twitter or any other social media so why is she ready to raise hell and create conflict with her.īecause they are in denial. She didn’t make him show her less attention because they all happen to be at the same outing, he did that. She didn’t agree to be in a relationship with her, he did. If a woman is truly OK with believing she is the “main chick” then why go after the other women. Yet they still are prepared to go to war with any women that threatens the make-believe relationship they think they have or can one day get. So does it really make a woman proud that she has a man who blatantly cheats or deals with multiple women as long as he claims she is first on the list? What is even more unfortunate is when the man actually makes it clear to all the women involved that he isn’t interested in a relationship. These woman will try to lay claim to being the “main chick” but if you’re the “main” then this implies that there are other woman. He could care less how this is truly affecting both parties as long as when it’s all said and done he still gets the benefits he desires. They are both getting PLAYED! These woman are fighting for this man while he sits back and is amused by this battle for his attention. Some even go as far as showing up at a woman’s house for a confrontation that can lead to violence. All of this nonsense is going on but they both fail to realize something. With so much more important things to be worried about many women find themselves more focused on battling with the “ other woman“. These love triangles where women fight each other are all around you and in my opinion it’s a damn shame. Movies, TV, music, and unfortunately real life. One man, two women, and a just a bunch of drama.

They deserve each other